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Don't shout , improve your arguments

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“Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.” Desmond Tutu No matter your age, I am sure that at some point in our life we all have gotten into some type of argument. Well today’s quote inspires us to pause, step back and reflect. Well as much as arguing sounds like a bad thing, it actually can be a good thing as the opportunity can help us improve. Its natural for us to always want to win the fight or argument, right? Well when trying to “win,” we tend to try and dominate the other person by showing that we are bigger, or louder. This isn’t a good thing! Instead of trying to be super dominant, we should try to prove our argument’s validity and use real evidence to prove that we are right. Let’ say if you and I  get into an argument on which ice cream flavor is more popular … and you say chocolate and I say vanilla. Instead of fighting we can try to prove to each other why each of us is right with a better argument or even better backed by some fact or data.  I en...

tiny thoughts ,great meaning

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  Opportunities don’t happen, you create them.” Chris Grosser I have heard people complain that they did not get this or that opportunity or that someone else was just lucky. Well, the truth is that luck is only a small part of it. Because some people go through their life and create opportunities one of which is maybe going to be their key to success. Other people just sit on their sofa complaining that they never got a chance. Go out there. Create opportunities. Start doing, today!  I define opportunities as the setting up of right environment around us that facilitates us to achieve our goals. We always think, if had this, i could have done this or when i get to this level, i'll be able to take advantage of that opportunity. We assume that opportunities comes themselves. Opportunities aren't something that just happens. They are not lying around waiting for us to pick them up and run with. You have to make conscious efforts to create opportunities yourself. You have to expl...